Do you have those days when you feel like you are not coping with your life? Your shoulders and neck feel tense? You find yourself getting more tummy aches than usual?
When it feels like you are not coping maybe it’s because you are focusing on the stress. Your body goes into fight or flight (keep thinking you need a holiday right now! Or sit there procrastinating?)
When you are in the thick of things you may forget that there are ways to bring joy into your life. Here are 12 suggestions to help you do just that:
Have a cup of tea
But make its special. Use a teapot or your favourite mug. Remind yourself that you also deserve some peace and quiet and that you are important too.
Commune with nature
Sit on the grass. Walk barefoot. Lie under or hug a tree (you have no idea how comforting that can be if you’ve never tried it). Feed the birds. Work in the garden.
Spend time looking at the clouds, the shapes, shades, contrast of colours. Watch a sunset or a sunrise for some peace and pleasure.
Do some exercise
Get those endorphins going. Often we don’t do anything when we are feeling low but that is the time to work it because you will feel so much better. What I do is jump on my mini trampoline while watching reruns of my favourite comedies. And talking about that…..
Watch a funny movie or read a funny book. Laughter changes the chemicals in your body so make it happen. Children laugh 200 to 300 x a day and adults laugh about 15 x a day. That’s just sad. Don’t be a statistic. Even forcing a smile onto your face changes what happens in your brain.
Throw a tantrum
Not in front of everybody else, just by yourself. You didn’t want things to be happening this way did you? So say so and stomp it out. Try not to scare anybody while doing it though, it doesn’t have to be loud. And then accept that this is part of life and you actually can cope if push comes to shove.
That’s what Friends are for
Contact a friend. You’ll be amazed at how many people are going through or have gone through something similar. If there’s no-one you can think of then contact a coach, a psychologist, a social worker or go and have your hair done and chat to your hairdresser.
Meditate or Pray
I find that when I meditate before I pray I’m much more focused and connected. These two activities alone have volumes of positives written about them – just ask google. Slow conscious breathing also works to calm a person down especially when you feel as though you are panicking.
Find a hug
Often a few moments of loving touch will do wonders when you are feeling overwhelmed.
Dance or sing it out
Listen to your favourite music, it will get those dance moves happening. Even if you don’t feel like it just dance anyway for one song. Or Sing. Sing out loud. Who cares what you sound like? If your voice is really bad then close the door.
I can’t stress the value of a pet. I don’t know what I would do without my dog and cat. They are an endless source of healing.
Be grateful for what’s right in your life. Not every single thing is going wrong.
Turn your life around.